It's about choices...

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Brains-10-If a man is smart he can figure out how to up his game in the money and utility areas...plus smart to me can be a combination of book, street smarts, and common sense...I couldn't talk to someone as dumb as a bag of rocks no matter how fine he was...

Body-10-I gotta be attracted to him and I have a serious weakness for a sexy brother who is thick in the thighs like a linebacker or field hand

Personality-10-we gotta be able to laugh and get along well...plus we'll need the personality once the body fades!!!

Money-1-As long as he's working and trying to better his situation I'm normally good...plus I plan to be wealthy so I got us!!!

Utility-1-it helps but its not that important...

Beauty-1-its good to have but since I had to pick btween beauty and body, I had to take body...plus there are plenty of sexy men who are that handsome..

[mccoyred]

Brains=10 I need someone who can stimulate me intellectually

Beauty=10 Like others, I have to look at his mug for the rest of my life

Body=1 Physical attributes come and go; besides they only have to have a few sexy body parts to turn me on

Money=1 If he has brains, we can get money

Personality=1 Too much 'personality' is stressful for an introvert like me

Utility=10 I am not necessarily high maintenance but if he is going to be around, he might as well make himself useful

Rank - 1)Brains 2)Utility 3)Beauty

[RedefinedDiva]

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Personality: I LOVE a man with his own swagger and style!
Money: I've been broke and currently am, but I'll be DAMNED if I continue to live my life that way! We need some money in the bank!
Body: Have you looked in the "'Cause You're My Black Brotha...'" thread lately?

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Beauty: It's in the eye of the beholder! As long as I love the way he looks, that's all that matters. Plus, I'm beautiful enough for us both!
Brains: He doesn't have to be a brainiac, but he should have common sense.
Utility: I have my own toolkit. Besides, with money, we'll be able to hire a handyman.