Becoming a Fraternity Sweetheart

[33girl]

Originally Posted by kdonline

Actually, a good majority of little sisters WERE sorority women. It was a big deal at our house to have a bunch of members as little sisters to certain fraternities.

On our campus one of the little sister programs was almost entirely made up of women from a certain sorority. They were usually little sisters first then pledged the sorority. So obviously they were all cool with it. Some sorority women were just completely against it though - and to be fair, there were little sisters who were pretty anti-sorority. Two of the fraternities didn't allow their little sisters to be in sororities which I think is where the animosity came from.

[banditone]

- Girls that hung out a lot at the house and were friends with the group, or girls that dated one of the guys were usually made Little Sisters. They came from all sorority houses, and some were non-greek even. We had a ceremony for them and everything. All formal and stuff at the house.
- They usually got a Lil' Bro from the pledge class.
- At the end of the year, before the White Star Formal, we had a vote at meeting. That was how the years Sweetheart was determined. The week of the vote was greatness as there were cookies, and other baked goods brought to the house by the front-runners daily
- Sweetheart was announced at the Formal. My Junior (or senior?) year my gf got Sweetheart. Had to stuff all those roses in my car... She was also on the composite for that year.

[babygurl7]

does anyone really know the process to become a kappa sweetheart?? is it as intense as it is like pledging..i really would love to be a sweet. what are the do's and do not's if anyone knows. tHANKS