Cheating Men

7thSonofOsiris · #1 01-22-2007, 01:13 PM

I have always been taught that "the way you get a person, will be the same way you loose them..." meaning, if she is married and throwing it at you, then she will do you the same way with some other man. About the ATL situation, since I have ties to the ATL, I can say, women in the ATL are very aggressive and confident. They will roll up in the parking lot![/quote]

Bruh, I agree with you 100%, the women in Atlanta are on a different level. The ratio of male to female is like, less than 1 male for every 21 females, and then you have to figure into that equation, all of the different semantics of what we as a people are facing down there, from that Down Low shit, to the number of incarcerated males, to the number of men who are married but are cheating, to that lower numeric of males who are single and trying to take care of business. It's such a rough game. Nationally and statistically though, its the worst place for "us" to be married. That's pretty bad considering how much we are interwoven into the fabric of the city, but, I think that the many different facets to how we're living down there, is negatively impacting what could be an awesome place for us to converge with our beautiful sisters, and to make families and to live progressively.
Let me ask you this though Bruh. In regards to people schooling us that, "the way we get them is the way we'll lose them", does that mean that we should anticipate that it's inevitable that we are going to lose them, regardless of what we do, how hard we work, or how much we love them? What's the truth, mang?

the7th

KAPPAtivating · #2 01-22-2007, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 7thSonofOsiris

Let me ask you this though Bruh. In regards to people schooling us that, "the way we get them is the way we'll lose them", does that mean that we should anticipate that it's inevitable that we are going to lose them, regardless of what we do, how hard we work, or how much we love them? What's the truth, mang?

the7th

I think that is meaning, that if you get a woman who is still in a relationship, then if she is cheating to be with you, then she will sooner or later cheat on you!

AKA2D '91 · #3 01-25-2007, 09:46 PM

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

lovelyivy84 · #4 01-25-2007, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA2D '91

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

LOL

Ahhh blast from the past threads...

TonyB06 · #5 01-26-2007, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA2D '91

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

ahh, here come them signifying AKAs

.if they wasn't so dayum fine ...

PrettyBoy · #6 01-27-2007, 06:31 AM

I'm kool single. I would like to be in a serious relationship, but it's too hard to tell if she's right. Plus all of the things that have to be done from the beginning. The whole idea of getting to know the person all over again. The last woman I was with, we were together for 8 years. It didn't work out, now I can't see starting all over again. It's like designing something on a computer that you've been working on for hours without saving what you've done while working, and then all of the sudden the computer freezes up on you. Now you have to reboot it and start all over again. That sucks.

Lady of Pearl · #7 01-27-2007, 11:23 PM

Is it better to have loved and lost, then never too have loved at all?Try this one on for size, I was in a relationship for five years and thought I had the real deal but in hindsight it was wrong from the beginning-why because it was not of God. As someone stated earlier you will know if someone is right if you look at that person's character. Sometime we don't because were caught up into how that person looks or makes us feel. Mr. Fine or Miss Fine may not be the right one! How do you know if they are the right one-there are signs from the beginning. In how that person behaves and or lives love is blind, we should be more discerning.

PrettyBoy · #8 01-28-2007, 03:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady of Pearl

Is it better to have loved and lost, then never too have loved at all?Try this one on for size, I was in a relationship for five years and thought I had the real deal but in hindsight it was wrong from the beginning-why because it was not of God. As someone stated earlier you will know if someone is right if you look at that person's character. Sometime we don't because were caught up into how that person looks or makes us feel. Mr. Fine or Miss Fine may not be the right one! How do you know if they are the right one-there are signs from the beginning. In how that person behaves and or lives love is blind, we should be more discerning.

Yeah, you're right. I had all kinds of signs that she wasn't right, but I still stayed with her. I liked her so much that the signs she gave me I over looked because she came off as this really nice person and on top of that she was very attractive. I think that's why I would rather stay alone because I don't trust myself in choosing the right woman. All of my relationships have been like this, and something I've noticed, is that all the women I've been in relationships with were the same. Different, but with similar backgrounds.