kellisorority's spring07 recruitment thread

[aephi alum]

Just don't be doing that during parties.

Good luck!

[kellisorority]

Originally Posted by aephi alum

Just don't be doing that during parties.

Good luck!

lol yeah. i'm checking it during breaks. i have a "bye round" right now.

[WhiteDaisy128]

Don't straight up say "I want this house and no others..." --- strange things happen at pref and someone else might pull ahead...but I would say, "I hope I see you tomorrow, I'm having such a great time with ABC."

Best of luck.

[greekprincess10]

I just saw this forum, has there been any news yet?

I agree with the other girls that you shouldn't be like, I WANT THIS ONE!
A helpful hint, be persistant.
Good Luck!!

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by WhiteDaisy128

Don't straight up say "I want this house and no others..." --- strange things happen at pref and someone else might pull ahead...but I would say, "I hope I see you tomorrow, I'm having such a great time with ABC."

Best of luck.

Agreed. Much in the same way a PNM gets hurt when she is promised a bid and doesn't get it, an active sister can get hurt when the PNM kisses ass too much and then goes somewhere else. There can be a lot of disappointment on bid day on both sides, and that is why you should be tactful.

Now, it is great to express that you really enjoy a house, just don't make any comments that make it sound like that house is the one and only.

Examples:

"I feel more at home here than any other house" == BAD
"I feel so comfortable here, I hope I get a chance to meet more sisters" == GOOD
"I can't wait to be an XYZ" == PSYCHO

[MTSUGURL]

Hope things are going well for you! Looking forward to an update!