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01-11-2007, 10:07 PM
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Last edited by kellisorority : Today at 04:01 PM. Reason: didn't follow the "rules"
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Just for clarification, it's not against the rules to reveal names. Most people choose not to do so for discretion purposes. Revealing as much info as you want is totally your choice -- but just remember that when it's not done tactfully, it could potentially hurt your chances of getting a bid.
Even if I didn't see the sororities and their code names before you edited your post, I can definitely tell which houses you're talking about already just by what you've posted.
Remember that you can still be honest and discreet at the same time.
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01-11-2007, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by OTW
Just for clarification, it's not against the rules to reveal names. Most people choose not to do so for discretion purposes. Revealing as much info as you want is totally your choice -- but just remember that when it's not done tactfully, it could potentially hurt your chances of getting a bid.
Even if I didn't see the sororities and their code names before you edited your post, I can definitely tell which houses you're talking about already just by what you've posted.
Remember that you can still be honest and discreet at the same time.
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Yeah, I don't know why I screwed up because I could of sworn I looked at other people's posts and they had both stuff up there. Or maybe I'm just hallucinating. Ah. This is bad.... less then 30 minutes.
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01-11-2007, 10:26 PM
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Even though I didn't see the unedited posts I have an idea which sorority Prada is (but I'm not saying anything).
Religion is very touchy. From the sounds you aren't Jewish, so I can understand why you might be uncomfortable in a house that has primarily girls who are Jewish, but remember there are going to be sisters who aren't Jewish. And just because they are doesn't mean they wouldn't be great sisters.
I have to say go with who you felt most comfortable with at the houses. Which house did you have great conversations with. Which house did you really like the sisters. Which house did you really see a bond between the sisters.
As for the religion issue, I guess it really depends how religious you are and how much it matters to you.
My best advice is follow your heart.
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01-12-2007, 10:10 AM
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I would suggest waiting to see how your invites come back before you make a final decision. At any of the houses with less than stellar conversation, you could have just ended up with a new rusher or a relatively unskilled one. Your conversation on another day could be much better.
Don't listen to other people's impressions. What really matters is your connection with the sisters.
Instead of stressing over it now, I'd say since you have a pretty good idea of how you feel, go get your invites and make your decision there if necessary. When you aren't trying to second guess yourself, and you have to choose quickly, I think you'll do better.
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01-12-2007, 12:08 PM
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From wht you have written it sounds like everything is better at Prada than at Betsey. Religion shouldn't play into it and it sounds like a pretty easy decision to me.
Now if you only get invited back to 6 it's a moot point.......
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01-12-2007, 01:55 PM
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It's best not to worry about who you will cut until you get your invites back. Depending on the # of sororities that ask you back, you might not have to cut anyone.
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01-12-2007, 07:26 PM
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Yeah, I agree with the others...worry about who to cut if that situation arises. You might be invited back to the magic number each time. If you try to decide first, you might set yourself up for disappointment. Best of luck! Let us know how it goes!
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