Order of the Eastern Star

[Mightymom]

I am at a decision making point, and would like to get some insight. I live in Georgia and WANTING to become a part of OES. I am confused about Afiliation and the types of Masonry. My father is PHA. I understand the open bloodline session, but in seeking information from members, I get different opions on PHA and types of Masonry. I would like to be PHA. However, in speaking to other members who speak of PHA's lack of ability to get certain accredidations (recognition), I am becoming more confused . In speaking with PHA members, I have been told that they are more recognized.... I am continuously seeking guidance, but members are continuously speaking against each other. What am I to do? Who do I need to speak with in order to get the proper information I need to take the next step? It is sad that everyone has the same mission, but are so divided... Can you help me with resources available to someone who is seeking to make a decision?

Thank you....