why do you have to get this disliked person a gift? you do not have to give a gift to someone who gives you one. just accept their present and tell them thank you-that might also get the message across that they are not one of your favorites.
Can't say much more other than "family"
I still say a charitable donation in someone's name is the best gift ever.
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I'll take trainwreck for 100 Alex.
And Jesus speaketh, "do unto others as they did unto you because the bitches deserve it".