Can Men and Women Be Truly Just Friends? - Page 6

AKA_Monet · #76 10-27-2006, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01

If by playing her cards right, you mean she bought me an XBox 360, I'd think about it. I am so kidding. She'd have to buy me some games too.

I don't know. I can be in a mature relationship, but marriage is probably less about love and more about business in my eyes. When I listen to people much older than me, and seemingly much more thorough, vent about marriage/family issues, I can only nod my head and pretend to understand.

1) Plenty of women I know work for Microsoft and can hook you up on their discount for the XBox...

2) Just for your own knowledge, you need to know about the "reality" of marriage by reading books about. Most folks don't know about being married until they are. But that doesn't mean you should go in clueless.

Besides, the way I intepret DSTChaos' comment was that you ought to have lived a little in your life, whatever that may be... If you haven't had those experiences you think you need to have, then you will be stringing along another person in your life always in a "search", sometimes for something better... It's about being indecisive.

Being married myself, there are time that I am quite immature with my husband. But I regroup and rebuild. To me, IMO, that is how love builds on a relationship. If you love each other, then you can always build. But you havta know how to love each other.

DSTCHAOS · #77 10-27-2006, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01

I don't know. I can be in a mature relationship, but marriage is probably less about love and more about business in my eyes. When I listen to people much older than me, and seemingly much more thorough, vent about marriage/family issues, I can only nod my head and pretend to understand.

Hopefully a healthy balance of the two.

PrettyBoy · #78 10-28-2006, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT

I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.

Whooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go ahead girl!!!!!

PrettyBoy · #79 10-28-2006, 02:09 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

I'm sorry, but you post that kinna thing, I havta see it to believe it...

You are talkin' good game but are you willin' to put dem "nutz" on the table lak dat dere?

Show me how "pretty" you are? And nunna this stuff where I do it first... 'Cuz folks who are on here know me... And you're single and turning girls on... I'm not.

LOL. O.K. AKA_Monet. Here's the deal. I'm not saying I'm a pretty boy. I'm just saying what women have always told me. It goes all the way back to the 1st time I went to a Kappa interest meeting. On that day most of the frats had their interest meetings at the same time, so when everyone left the interest meetings, women would be outside to see who was coming out, and they would say to me "Oh we know what you're pledging. Pretty Boy!" After the interest meeting even the Nupes made comments about me as I was leaving. I've been told this so often that I just said hey, why not go with the flow. Now as far as my picture is concerned, I wouldn't put it on the net especially directed toward a married woman. I'm single because I don't hang out. I study and work too much. When would I have time to meet a nice young lady?

delph998 · #80 10-28-2006, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I study and work too much. When would I have time to meet a nice young lady?

WOW! You had me until you said this...

I like giving you a hard time.

DSTCHAOS · #81 10-28-2006, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

LOL. O.K. AKA_Monet. Here's the deal. I'm not saying I'm a pretty boy. I'm just saying what women have always told me. It goes all the way back to the 1st time I went to a Kappa interest meeting. On that day most of the frats had their interest meetings at the same time, so when everyone left the interest meetings, women would be outside to see who was coming out, and they would say to me "Oh we know what you're pledging. Pretty Boy!" After the interest meeting even the Nupes made comments about me as I was leaving. I've been told this so often that I just said hey, why not go with the flow. Now as far as my picture is concerned, I wouldn't put it on the net especially directed toward a married woman. I'm single because I don't hang out. I study and work too much. When would I have time to meet a nice young lady?

Guffaw!

DSTCHAOS · #82 10-28-2006, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998

I like giving you a hard time.

He doesn't make it hard to.

PrettyBoy · #83 10-28-2006, 11:38 PM

LOL. DSTCHAOS and delph998 you two are somethin' else.

I really do have a busy schedule.

RedAngel · #84 10-29-2006, 07:28 PM

I think men and women can be truly just friends.
I have a few male friends that are just that.

AKA_Monet · #85 11-02-2006, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

LOL. O.K. AKA_Monet. Here's the deal. I'm not saying I'm a pretty boy. I'm just saying what women have always told me. It goes all the way back to the 1st time I went to a Kappa interest meeting. On that day most of the frats had their interest meetings at the same time, so when everyone left the interest meetings, women would be outside to see who was coming out, and they would say to me "Oh we know what you're pledging. Pretty Boy!" After the interest meeting even the Nupes made comments about me as I was leaving. I've been told this so often that I just said hey, why not go with the flow. Now as far as my picture is concerned, I wouldn't put it on the net especially directed toward a married woman. I'm single because I don't hang out. I study and work too much. When would I have time to meet a nice young lady?

There is always room to meet someone when you want to...

And... What do you "study" and "work" too much (at/for)?

Your little comments... You ain't gonna meet "nice young ladies"... That will be a little tough for you...

delph998 · #86 11-03-2006, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by RedAngel

I think men and women can be truly just friends.
I have a few male friends that are just that.

Question: On both ends is there absolutely no chemistry? I'm just curious; not doubting what you say.

BellaSF · #87 11-04-2006, 12:41 PM

I believe that men and women can be friends in certain circumstances. After great thought about this subject I realized that I dated most of my male friends. In fact, last year I was dating a friend and he told me that he had feelings for another female which also happened to be a friend. We vowed to remain friends. And we have...but we still go on dates, flirt and all that stuff. We just don't admit that we have feelings for one another.

PrettyBoy · #88 11-07-2006, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

There is always room to meet someone when you want to...

And... What do you "study" and "work" too much (at/for)?

Your little comments... You ain't gonna meet "nice young ladies"... That will be a little tough for you...

I'm in school for industrial design. I work midnights so I can go to class during the day. The little time I have left (when I'm not in Bible study) I sleep. I never have time to meet nice women.

DSTCHAOS · #89 11-07-2006, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I'm in school for industrial design. I work midnights so I can go to class during the day. The little time I have left (when I'm not in Bible study) I sleep. I never have time to meet nice women.

You better be lucky you're a Kappa and your name is PrettyBoy. When I read this post an image of a recluse(sp) like Norman Bates popped in my head.

PrettyBoy · #90 11-07-2006, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

You better be lucky you're a Kappa and your name is PrettyBoy. When I read this post an image of a recluse(sp) like Norman Bates popped in my head.

You lost me with this post.