SwtSerenity's Recruitment thread

[FSUZeta]

to add to the confusion, i would go slightly against lilchiolady's advice, and say to attend all three prefs. often at prefs., the choices become clearer to the pnm.

you do not have to put all three sororities on your bid card(no matter what your rho chi might believe)-you do not even have to sign your bid card, should you continue to feel that the sororities are not the right fit for you. if you go thru prefs. you will at least have seen the entire formal recruitment process and might be less likely to always wonder "what if?".

supporting your decision no matter what.

[Ocalagirl]

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

to add to the confusion, i would go slightly against lilchiolady's advice, and say to attend all three prefs. often at prefs., the choices become clearer to the pnm.

you do not have to put all three sororities on your bid card(no matter what your rho chi might believe)-you do not even have to sign your bid card, should you continue to feel that the sororities are not the right fit for you. if you go thru prefs. you will at least have seen the entire formal recruitment process and might be less likely to always wonder "what if?".

supporting your decision no matter what.

totally agree!!! I too would attend all three pref parties because it might just change your mind on what you think about the chapter. And also remember this that you are not going to like every member of every chapter but go on where do you feel comfortable...well I too would am supporting your decision no matter what as well

[sailboatgirl]

Sorry things took a turn, but I'd echo what others have said...attend any and all prefs that you're invited to, and put what you know is best for you on your bid card or don't sign one at all...I truly believe that prefs can decide things for you...but once again, you know what is best for you and what will make you happy! My thoughts are with you!