How do I handle this situation?

[ADPiShannan]

Just wanted to say the shower happened and it turned out ok. The bride loved it and was very overwhelmed, she cried almost the whole shower. She really was happy. I think thats what made it the best.

As for the MOH, she is a trip. She came in and tried to take over, but everything was done. I did all the decorating at 9am and they came at 12. She did try to boss all of us around on what to do and such, but I ignored her. I just wanted the bride to have a good time.

Because the invites had to come from Hawaii the MOH forgot to send a few and some didnt get to people so we did not have the turn out we wanted. I cant complain though, the people who did come were very nice and we all had a nice time.

The bride cried at almost all the presents she opened and it just turned out good. The wedding is coming up the first Saturday of November so Im looking forward to it and then it being over so I dont have to see the MOH anymore. Its horrible to think that, but she just is too much. One of the other bridesmaids is extremely pregnant so she is all over with emotions.

I have my SIL's wedding this weekend. My husband said he doesnt want to be in anymore wedding after these two. He forgets his best friend will one day get married, but he said he is tired of weddings lol...

[AChiOhSnap]

Originally Posted by ADPiShannan

Just wanted to say the shower happened and it turned out ok. The bride loved it and was very overwhelmed, she cried almost the whole shower. She really was happy. I think thats what made it the best.

As for the MOH, she is a trip. She came in and tried to take over, but everything was done. I did all the decorating at 9am and they came at 12. She did try to boss all of us around on what to do and such, but I ignored her. I just wanted the bride to have a good time.

Because the invites had to come from Hawaii the MOH forgot to send a few and some didnt get to people so we did not have the turn out we wanted. I cant complain though, the people who did come were very nice and we all had a nice time.

The bride cried at almost all the presents she opened and it just turned out good. The wedding is coming up the first Saturday of November so Im looking forward to it and then it being over so I dont have to see the MOH anymore. Its horrible to think that, but she just is too much. One of the other bridesmaids is extremely pregnant so she is all over with emotions.

I have my SIL's wedding this weekend. My husband said he doesnt want to be in anymore wedding after these two. He forgets his best friend will one day get married, but he said he is tired of weddings lol...

Sorry to crash!

The MOH sounds like a huge beeeyotch, you get major karma points for handling her insanity with grace and with the bride's happiness in mind.

Go check out the wedding section of etiquettehell.com. Whenever I'm involved in wedding dramarama, I read all the stories and feel somewhat better knowing that I'm not alone in dealing with Maidzillas. Have fun!

[FirstAndFinest]

Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap

Go check out the wedding section of etiquettehell.com.

Thank you, thank you, thank you, THANK YOU - for what I'm sure will be HOURS of endless enjoyment!!!!!

[adpiucf]

I LOVE that web site!