Speakin' of tips...

[So blessed!]

A sincere and non-sexual compliment is very appropriate, such "You're a very beautiful woman"... who doesn't want to hear that? If you want to mention the part of the woman's anatomy that interested you, please let it be her eyes, her smile, her beautiful brown skin. Mentioning gluteal, breast, or other below-the-neck parts of her anatomy will get you nowhere with a true lady.

Also keep in mind that this woman does not know you. I would prefer to have your email address and then I'll email you when it's convenient and if I'm interested. Guys have been put-off when I've told them I don't feel comfortable calling them and would rather have their email address. For me, calling can be a bit more intimate than desired when trying to feel somebody out and assess their intentions.

[whiteandblack]

gauge (sp?) a woman's interest by studying her body language and eye contact before you ask for her number.

[black_princess]

Hey all,
I'm back from hiatus again

Anyway, I just had to comment here. Yes, I am a young girl (21), but I still want respect. Im not saying that u have to approach me like ur about to give a speach in front of the nation, but still I don't think that it's much to as for a "Excuse me miss do you mind if I talk with you for a minute?" It's that simple.

Instead, since a lot of the guys in my peer group can be a little immature (not all . . but many 21 year old guys are) I tend to get "Psssssst . . Aye Ma, come ova here" Many times I tell them "Havent you heard that real ladies really hate that??" Some are totally confused as to y "Aye Ma" didn't work, while others seem to have a light bulb go off and get it .

So guys young and old take note . . . women love to be approached as a lady. Even if u have a little rough-ness about u . . you'll go miles further with no bs,no lines, and stick to respect and honesty. If she says no, most-likely she'll try to equally respectfull about it. But if you approach like an azz, expect to get ignored like one

[black_princess]

Have you ever ignored some ignorant comments and come on lines from a guy and still gave the guy some play because he was particularly good looking?

[whiteandblack]

Originally Posted by black_princess

Have you ever ignored some ignorant comments and come on lines from a guy and still gave the guy some play because he was particularly good looking?

hi black princess! a good looking guy and a tired rap shouldn't mix. leave that alone.

[Exquisite5]

[QUOTE=So blessed!]A sincere and non-sexual compliment is very appropriate, such "You're a very beautiful woman"... who doesn't want to hear that? If you want to mention the part of the woman's anatomy that interested you, please let it be her eyes, her smile, her beautiful brown skin. Mentioning gluteal, breast, or other below-the-neck parts of her anatomy will get you nowhere with a true lady.

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This is true, but even a sincere comment can be ruined when the delivery is CHEESY...men, lay off the cheese! I.e. don't pretend to be Mr. Debonaire, Billy D., Don Juan- just do you (and if that is you...change )