CuriousWildcat's recruitment story at UK

[BGKdLady]

What would be a good way of answering this question w/o sounding rude and not lying or saying "nowhere else?" I agree that you don't want to tell chapters that they are the only place you are going. Maybe something like, "well, I can tell you which house I'm going to today that I like best!" and then talking about how much you like their house???

[adpiucf]

Nothing wrong with saying it in a way that shows them you are interested:

"I am so excited to be back here at XYZ today!"

"I was so happy when I saw I'd been invited back to XYZ today! I really love everyone I have met!"

"Coming to XYZ each day has been my favorite part of recruitment. I'm so happy to be back today!"

[CuriousWildcat]

Originally Posted by adpiucf

"I was so happy when I saw I'd been invited back to XYZ today! I really love everyone I have met!"
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I think this is exactly what I said!

[WhiteDaisy128]

I'm crossing my fingers for you and Amber!!

[Lily1909]

Wishing you all the best with Amber!

[sport]

I have a special feeling for UK as I was born in KY. I hope you get your top choice!

[texas*princess]

Maybe it was just my school, but we were instructed to not ask "what other parties will you be going to today" type questions for several reasons.

The main one obviously being that if a PNM only got invited to a handful of parties and didn't have a full schedule, she might be feeling bummed about being rejected from the other houses she may have been interested in.

Like someone mentioned, for a lot of women, being cut at rush may be the first taste of "rejection" these women have to go through, so even though it may very well turn out to be a blessing in the end, there is still the possibility they are upset that they don't have a full party schedule like some of the other pnms may have, or maybe they got cut from a house that was their favorite up until that point.

Anyhow, I'm sending you the very very best wishes CW!!!