Dresscode for twentysomething women!

AlphaFrog · #1 08-16-2006, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Scandia

- Don't wear flip-flops 24/7 or to every single place. They are fine for the beach or the pool, but they are NOT for work or the house of worship.

Sorry...you're not taking my flip-flops. I wear them every day to work (most days, with jeans and a t-shirt, but I happen to be wearing a casual dress today). But then again, we may get one vistor or so per day, and they're usually a delivery guy, delivering toliets and sinks.

I have a nicer pair that I wear to church on Sunday (relaxed ELCA church).

kddani · #2 08-16-2006, 08:17 AM

Of course there are some jobs where you can wear whatever you want (such as Alphafrog's job, from what it sounds like). But for a professional young woman, flip flops are not professional. There are also some industries where appearance is VERY important and you may be expected to dress and act a certain way.

Say no to:

White or cream pumps when you're not the bride/mother of the bride

Big clunky shoes with skirts or dresses

Lots of sequins (we're not talking about a subtle design- we're talking full on lots of sparkle) and glitter in the office.

Being overly made up- either too dark, too Mimi Bobeck, etc.

Short skirts. If you're wearing pantyhose with a skirt, and you sit down and the skirt rides up to the point where you can see where the top part of the pantyhose starts (don't know what it's called, obviously it's not present in sheer-to-waist pantyhose), it's TOO SHORT.

Too much fragrance. One or two sprays is sufficient

AlphaFrog · #3 08-16-2006, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by kddani

Too much fragrance. One or two sprays is sufficient

Emphasising this. My coworker is allergic (as are many people) so it would be rude for me to wear perfume to work. We work in close proximity...so if I find some fragrance I really want to wear, I bring it in first for her to "allergy test".

PinkandGreenJ · #4 08-16-2006, 11:26 AM

No suntan pantyhose- every designer came out with a variety of shades that match every skin tone. We are not Hooters waitresses, so suntan hose are not acceptable unless your legs are that shade.

No ankle bracelets.

If you must wear ankle bracelets, for the love of G*d, don't wear them WITH pantyhouse.

(Sorry, pet peeve of mine.)

OtterXO · #5 08-16-2006, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by kddani

Big clunky shoes with skirts or dresses

In my opinion, say no to big clunky shoes at all. They tend to look juvenile and dated in the workplace. Invest in a few pairs of classic, good quality shoes with a moderate heel for work and you'll be set for awhile....just be sure to find a good shoe repair person to help you take care of your investment!

SydneyK · #6 08-16-2006, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by OtterXO

Invest in a few pairs of classic, good quality shoes...

Same goes for good quality bras. Noone wants to see your nips... unless you're at Hooters wearing your suntan pantyhose. And, am I the only one who gets

at women who wear bras that have noticible seems/sequins/beads/etc... ? Either wear a heavier shirt or buy a smoother bra. Maybe it's just me.

OtterXO · #7 08-16-2006, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by SydneyK

Same goes for good quality bras. Noone wants to see your nips... unless you're at Hooters wearing your suntan pantyhose. And, am I the only one who gets

at women who wear bras that have noticible seems/sequins/beads/etc... ? Either wear a heavier shirt or buy a smoother bra. Maybe it's just me.

LOL...so true! Also, proper fitting good quality bras! No one needs to see you adjusting your ladies in public.

tunatartare · #8 08-16-2006, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by OtterXO

LOL...so true! Also, proper fitting good quality bras! No one needs to see you adjusting your ladies in public.

YES! I can't stand it when women buy bras that are like three sizes too small on them and you see the girls spilling out all over the place.

FirstAndFinest · #9 08-16-2006, 10:30 PM

Belly shirts, low rise jeans, and bikinis were not made for every body.
Dress in what flatters your body.
When dressing for work, don't show off your belly, cleavage or thighs because then no one will take you seriously.
When there's a company picnic, carefully consider your attire - do you want the President to remember you wearing super-tight, too-short, inappropriate clothes??

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

YES! I can't stand it when women buy bras that are like three sizes too small on them and you see the girls spilling out all over the place.

A colleague at my new job wears demis and then spills out. She's a tiny woman, but the girls are too large for demis. After she wore a too-sheer top, I even considered telling her, but I think she would feel I'm outta line.

Glitter650 · #10 08-16-2006, 01:00 PM

I know some of you will disagree with this, but if you have to dress in full on business attire, like a suit or business dress WEAR PANTYHOSE. Bare legs are fine with a sundress or more business casual type skirt or whatever, but I think if you're wearing a suit and everything... bare legs just don't go.

tunatartare · #11 08-16-2006, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Glitter650

I know some of you will disagree with this, but if you have to dress in full on business attire, like a skirt or business dress WEAR PANTYHOSE. Bare legs is fine with a sundress or more business casual type skirt or whatever, but I think if you're wearing a suit and everything... bare legs just don't go.

I completely agree.

adpiucf · #12 08-16-2006, 01:06 PM

Once you graduate from college, Charlotte Russe/Abercrombie/Aeropostale and American Eagle should slowly disappear from your wardrobe. Notable exceptions: you work in a night club or spend your days beach combing.

If you have a large chest, watch what you wear to work. The same shirt that appears demure on your B cup colleague will make you look like a porn star. I know it's not fair, but you don't have to hide yourself in turtlenecks-- just think twice when you're selecting your work clothing.

SoCalGirl · #13 08-18-2006, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

I have a nicer pair that I wear to church on Sunday (relaxed ELCA church).

Last year I wore jeans and flip flops to church (also ELCA). It was Christmas!

The girls next to me were complaining to their mom about why they had to dress up. I so knew how they felt. For years I was the over dressed one at church. Now, I figure I should fit in with everyone else.

SmartBlondeGPhB · #14 08-19-2006, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Sorry...you're not taking my flip-flops. I wear them every day to work (most days, with jeans and a t-shirt, but I happen to be wearing a casual dress today). But then again, we may get one vistor or so per day, and they're usually a delivery guy, delivering toliets and sinks.

I've been wearing mine almost all summer........

Dress appropriate to the company you are working for, that's all you need to do.

My company happens to be one where jeans, tshirts, shorts and flip flops are quite acceptable and hardly noticed.

But then, we're also one of the top companies to work for. Maybe there's a correlation????