Uf Rush

blueangel · #1 07-20-2006, 08:11 PM

I received a bid at UF when I was a junior.. but that was in the 1980's. I don't know how things have changed over the years.

But no matter.. I'd say, go for it! The rush experience itself is really something not to be missed.. and as Penguin Trax said.. if you don't find a home during formal rush.. go for informal rush.

Go in with a positive attitude, smile, and be friendly. Don't find yourself apologizing for your age. I wouldn't even bring it up.

Some things that may help you: Read Dale Carnegie's classic, "How to Make Friends and Influence People." It should be the bible for all girls going through rush. It teaches you not only how to make new friends, but how to make conversation and to leave a good impression.

Think about how you can market yourself. I don't mean being fake; I mean letting the girls know who you are and why you're something special. Do you have an unusual hobby? Remember that at UF, there are a lot of girls going through rush, and you only have a short time to make yourself memorable.

I often wear an engraved gold bracelet my grandmother had bought for me when I was awarded my black belt in judo. It's a beautiful piece, and people always lean over to read what it says. I wore it at rush (not for that reason, but just because it's special to me) and it not only helped to be a great conversation starter for the girls rushing me, but I think it made me very easy to remember. How many black belts in judo do you know who went through rush??!!!

So, if you play rugby, or you paint.. do you have a charm you can wear that shows off your talent? It's a great conversation starter, and could make you stand out from the crowd.

Most of all, have fun.

FSUZeta · #2 07-21-2006, 08:24 AM

oh, my heavens dale, you are not old!! your class standing will matter more to some chapters than your age. as others have said, most likely, some chapters will release you because you are an upperclass woman and they want only freshmen, but there are others to whom class standing matters less. give it your best shot, and see what happens. as i once told someone else, if you don't try, you won't pledge!!

UF56 · #3 07-24-2006, 07:06 PM

I have plenty of friends who made it into "only freshman" houses at UF as juniors. As long as you have a good GPA and recs you should be okay. Feel free to PM if you have any UF rush questions!!

GatorSmiles · #4 08-14-2006, 08:01 PM

Hey ladies....

It has been so long since I have posted....but I have thought about it all summer and I am going to rush. Recruitment starts on friday, so I am trying to get ready! I had previously read on some threads that you should dress a little nicer than is suggested to. What do yall think about this? And for prefs.,I was planning on weraing a black cocktail dress, but should I get a colored one so I stand out, as some women suggested on GC?

Anyone have any more advice

kddani · #5 08-14-2006, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by GatorSmiles

Hey ladies....

It has been so long since I have posted....but I have thought about it all summer and I am going to rush. Recruitment starts on friday, so I am trying to get ready! I had previously read on some threads that you should dress a little nicer than is suggested to. What do yall think about this? And for prefs.,I was planning on weraing a black cocktail dress, but should I get a colored one so I stand out, as some women suggested on GC?

Anyone have any more advice

With recruitment so close I don't know that you should necessarily stress yourself out trying to find a new dress. I'd personally recomment using some fabulous accessories with it that will set you apart - a colorful scarf (if you can pull off a scarf look, i personally think I look silly in them), a bold piece of jewelry or some awesome shoes. Someone memorable!

adpiucf · #6 08-14-2006, 11:23 PM

And while, yes, many sororities will wear black or red or blue or whatever for their prefs dressed and you've read some posts where we advised you, "Don't wear (fill in the color here) at prefs"-- just look cute and wear something flattering that suits the attire for the day. They'll remember you for your personality, not your clothes! Just make sure you feel good about what you're wearing and your confidence will reflect that. Have fun and best of luck!

GatorSmiles · #7 08-16-2006, 08:42 PM

Hey everyone....Ok I am keeping my black dress for prefs....and I have all my other outfits ready!! Our orientation meeting is Friday, so I will keep you posted!

Any last minute tips??

Oh yea---what is essential for me to have with me in my bag at rush?

GatorSmiles · #8 08-19-2006, 11:12 AM

Hey all-

Our orientation was last nght and was great....my Pi Chis are awesome

Off to round one, hoping I dont pass out and melt in the florida heat

LaneSig · #9 08-19-2006, 11:15 AM

Good luck and have fun.

twinkle555 · #10 08-19-2006, 12:32 PM

good luck gator! i know what you mean..its so hot..dont melt!

blueangel · #11 08-19-2006, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin

Just quoting this for posterity.

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Why thank you GP.

ufdale · #12 08-29-2006, 09:06 PM

Any updates?