Co-worker?

[Scandia]

Well, our talking to each other comes easily for some reason. I am more extraverted than introverted, but not by much. And now the confidence will come even easier given how much we like some of the same things. Plus there are some other things that do give me an edge.

His desk is in a different building than mine- library has two buildings connected by a tunnel. I do not know if he has started going out to the E-libraries yet, or if he is just teaching the computer classes in our main headquarters.

I do want to be friends first and take things slowly and easily. But I do fear that if I do not act "fast enough", either someone else will snag him or he will get the wrong idea about me. Again, I am not good with relationships and romance.

[JonInKC]

I think you should just go for it. Like I told that judge one drunken Thursday morning, "You can't put a restrainin order on my heart". I'm not sure if that's relevant or not. Oh well.

[GAC3710]

Why not just have sex with him in the library and see where it goes from there?

[Scandia]

Now that was tacky and definitely a reason for automatic termination.

[GAC3710]

tacky or just slutty?

[KSUViolet06]

Ask yourself this:
Is the nature of my job such that if we broke up, we'd have to interact on a daily basis? If it's not, then go for it.

[Scandia]

Not unless we run into each other in the halls or lunchroom. We would not be working together on the same reference desk. Our office desks are not in the same floor or even building. We do not work on programs together. There are staff meetings that are occassional, but that's about it- and they do not necessarily would have both of us attending the same one at the same time.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by Scandia

Now that was tacky and definitely a reason for automatic termination.

Sex in the library is not tacky. It gives law students everywhere a reason to live.

[valkyrie]

Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin

Sex in the library is not tacky. It gives law students everywhere a reason to live.

LOLEW @ pasty law-body geeks gettin' it on next to a shelf of, um, haha, whatever actual books law students still use.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by valkyrie

LOLEW @ pasty law-body geeks gettin' it on next to a shelf of, um, haha, whatever actual books law students still use.

Clearly HORNBOOKS. And of course the lovely CFR.

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin

Sex in the library is not tacky. It gives law students everywhere a reason to live.

LMAO! So if I do get into law school is this what I have to look foward too?! Woo Hoo! (j/k)

[Scandia]

LOLOL!

Last year, two people were caught having sex in one of the bathrooms of the History department. It was not me who caught them- but I was still cracking up about it.