Really!?!?!?!

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

This reminds me of the pictures of the Zetas in the "we look good in any color" t-shirts. Where is that thread?!!

Can't find it.

Yeah, that is what I thought about too. And that thread where it had those guys wearing Delta and AKA line jackets. People did not seem bothered about that.

[BlueReign]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Yeah, that is what I thought about too. And that thread where it had those guys wearing Delta and AKA line jackets. People did not seem bothered about that.

Aint that the truth! This picture is floating around enough cause it was all up in my e-mails. Why is it that when one of our members does something for "shock value" we are called "insecure" and what not? I was 36 years old when I became a Sigma woman.

I aint insecure about a dam thing!

I'm still looking for the darn thread....

Can't find it... oh well caint find it.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

Why is it that when one of our members does something for "shock value" we are called "insecure" and what not? I was 36 years old when I became a Sigma woman.

No one called all of you insecure.

We called that young lady, and anyone else who puts that much (money and) effort into other organizations, insecure.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Yeah, that is what I thought about too. And that thread where it had those guys wearing Delta and AKA line jackets. People did not seem bothered about that.

I was "bothered" by it until I found out it was Greek skit day and the men were doing tributes to the members of those sororities. The jackets were not worn as a diss.

That shirt that is shown in the original post is meant to be a diss. I am no longer bothered by it like I was a year ago because it is another Greek trend.

Originally Posted by BlueReign

Aint that the truth! This picture is floating around enough cause it was all up in my e-mails. Why is it that when one of our members does something for "shock value" we are called "insecure" and what not? I was 36 years old when I became a Sigma woman.

I aint insecure about a dam thing!

I'm still looking for the darn thread....

Can't find it... oh well caint find it.

No one said that you, Blue Reign, is insecure. And age has nothing to do with insecurity.

But possibly the wearer of this shirt is insecure about her affiliation.

The thread is in your forum in the I Can't Believe thread: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...t=54788&page=5

[BlueReign]

Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4

But possibly the wearer of this shirt is insecure about her affiliation.

The thread is in your forum in the I Can't Believe thread: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...t=54788&page=5

Thanks CT4 for the link. No, I'm not talking bout that thread. There was a whole nother thread that was created and dedicated to those specific shirts and I can't find it.

Now as for this current shirt, I kind of like it. I would wear it IF IT WAS DONE DIFFERENTLY!!. Why would anyone want to wear another organizations letters in their colors? Nothing is sacred anymore. A better shirt could have been made in the likes of the apology shirts.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

Now as for this current shirt, I kind of like it. I would wear it IF IT WAS DONE DIFFERENTLY!!. Why would anyone want to wear another organizations letters in their colors? Nothing is sacred anymore. A better shirt could have been made in the likes of the apology shirts.

Why would anyone want to wear another organization's letters, period (outside of maybe NPHC event shirts)? Not to mention that some of our organization's have protocol as to how we should and should not sport our 'nalia.

In addition to official protocol for my organization, I was taught some unofficial 'nalia protocol. That unofficial 'nalia protocol included not wearing "diss 'nalia." It's all about DST and if you want to think about another organization enough to put a reference to that organization on your 'nalia...you should've pledged that other organization.

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4

I was "bothered" by it until I found out it was Greek skit day and the men were doing tributes to the members of those sororities. The jackets were not worn as a diss.

.....ummmmm, okay......skit day......riiiiiiiiightttt, yeah, a 'skit'. , (just teasing)

That shirt that is shown in the original post is meant to be a diss. I am no longer bothered by it like I was a year ago because it is another Greek trend.

Quite frankly, neither am I. In the realm of dissing other NPHC greeks, this shirt is very mild by comparison. I've seen and heard much worse. The 'much worse' is usually from the fraternities.

But possibly the wearer of this shirt is insecure about her affiliation.

Why would you assume that? I'm assuming here that she did it just for the picnic just to get a rise out of people, which as one poster has said, the shirt really did not cause a stir.

And, quite frankly, I know of other NPHC members who became unsure about their affiliation. For those of us who live in glass houses, we should not throw stones.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Why would you assume that? I'm assuming here that she did it just for the picnic just to get a rise out of people, which as one poster has said, the shirt really did not cause a stir.

That's insecure and lame as far as I'm concerned. It didn't cause a stir because people hopefully thought "that's insecure and lame" when they saw the shirt. More money down the drain.

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

[B]And, quite frankly, I know of other NPHC members who became unsure about their affiliation. For those of us who live in glass houses, we should not throw stones.

What are you talking about right now? Are people getting sensitive just because this is their soror?

[dzdst796]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

That's insecure and lame as far as I'm concerned. It didn't cause a stir because people hopefully thought "that's insecure and lame" when they saw the shirt. More money down the drain.



What are you talking about right now? Are people getting sensitive just because this is their soror?

I am with Chaos on this. Don't get sensitive because we are commenting about your crass soror. You should be checking for her because she is the one that made you all look bad. Trust if that would have been one of my lovely Delta sorors she would definitely have been checked.!!

[DSTCHAOS]

teehee........

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by dzdst796

I am with Chaos on this. Don't get sensitive because we are commenting about your crass soror. You should be checking for her because she is the one that made you all look bad. Trust if that would have been one of my lovely Delta sorors she would definitely have been checked.!!

My only question is why do you assume she is insecure? Like I said, in the realm of disses, this is pretty mild. Maybe that is the problem, you feel dissed. If *you* were secure in your membership, then this would not bother you either. You'd probably be 'ehhh, whatever' and move on. Really, y'all are sweating this too much.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

My only question is why do you assume she is insecure?

Because.

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Like I said, in the realm of disses, this is pretty mild.

That's like a mild case of diarrhea. Still diarrhea.

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Maybe that is the problem, you feel dissed.If *you* were secure in your membership, then this would not bother you either. You'd probably be 'ehhh, whatever' and move on. Really, y'all are sweating this too much.

teehee....

I have seen diss 'nalia that had no reference to DST on it and still thought "that's insecure and lame." It's not about feeling dissed since I personally don't think anyone has the credentials nor capacity to effectively diss my sorority and receive more than a chuckle or sympathy glance.

The problem is that you're wearing your blue and gold cape right now and have been doing some explaining in this thread. I don't think anyone would be commenting as much if the SGRhos hadn't have come in here like hit dogs as if they are from this girl's home chapter. Truth of the matter is that there are insecure and lame people in every organization--based on whatever standards WE use to determine insecurity and lameness. Some have just been taught not to display their insecurities and lameness on their organization's 'nalia.

[dzdst796]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

My only question is why do you assume she is insecure? Like I said, in the realm of disses, this is pretty mild. Maybe that is the problem, you feel dissed. If *you* were secure in your membership, then this would not bother you either. You'd probably be 'ehhh, whatever' and move on. Really, y'all are sweating this too much.

A Delta feeling dissed by a member of SGRho what a joke. Obviously you know that your soror's shirt was worn in bad taste and if you weren't feeling "dissed" you would be 'ehhh, whatever' and move on. So who's is sweating this too much?!

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Why would you assume that? I'm assuming here that she did it just for the picnic just to get a rise out of people, which as one poster has said, the shirt really did not cause a stir.

And, quite frankly, I know of other NPHC members who became unsure about their affiliation. For those of us who live in glass houses, we should not throw stones.

I am not assuming one little thing about her. It's just a possibility.

Well said in your last 2 or 3 posts, Soror DSTChaos.

[2Tuff2Quit]

I don't know where the thread is but I think that this is the picture that you all were talking about.......