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Originally posted by knitsnpurls
I've also read that the "optional" recommendation letters help girls, but is it wise to send letters to houses you know nothing about (most of them, in my case)? Or should you only send a letter if you're already leaning toward a specific house?
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You should obtain recs for every chapter if at all possible. You may be "leaning" toward a house, but they may be leaning away from you. It's best to keep all your options open.
Oh, and since you're a junior, you've probably already met members of sororities and spoken to them. I'm not sure how strict silence is at your school, but if you see a sorority member you're friendly with, say hi & talk to her (although not about the sorority or rush) - if she's not allowed to talk to you since you're going through rush, she'll let you know. It's up to HER to tell you. If your campus doesn't have a strict silence and you ignore a member because you think they DO, it could be a giant faux pas.
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