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Originally posted by gem_star17
thanks for your insightful reply, HC.... i could see a chapter giving a bid to a pnm that only half the chapter liked but if the pnm still made no attempts to fit in after rush then why even give the girl a bid just to make quota? isn't it painfully obvious that she's just after the letters? an "unpopular" PNM and a crappy pledge are two TOTALLY different things.
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I don't know if the full amount of pain came through, yes, an "unpopular" PNM who works at becoming a good sister and a New Member/Pledge who doesn't are two entirely different entities.
This woman had it all - including a father who was District Attorney at the time, and running for Mayor! While the sisters who were against her from the beginning didn't make it easy for her, she could have tried harder herself. AND, those of us who saw that she had her guard up but could be awesome should have given her less chances to change her attitude, or advised her to quit earlier. It was a big lesson for all of us!
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