Thats not the stress of one depledging new member, that was the drama caused by the rest of the chapter's bitchfests.
Thats just silly. Grown women driving each other away because they disagree over something.
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Originally posted by honeychile
We held initiation, and tried to make nice until the end of the year. By the beginning of the next term, our chapter, which was then second largest on campus (darn DZ's were always the largest!), came back with less than half of the sisters. Honestly, they disappeared in the middle of the night - just moved out, cancelled their membership or wrote a check for the rest of the year, and were never seen again. If you saw one on campus, she'd turn the other way. The stress of this ONE unhappy New Member was too much for most to handle!
To this day, whenever asked, I have said that, if a large number of sisters dislike someone - not on the fence, but dislike - DROP HER!!!
I've obviously had to leave parts out, but the bottom line is this:
No one woman is worth the destruction of your chapter. NO ONE!
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