OH MY GOSH
Why do I feel like I wrote this thread. Unfortunately, I feel your pain. With me, I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years, and he's my ideal man. I care about him so much, but I'm scared to tell him because I don't want him to get scared off. I know he knows how I feel about him, and I know he is crazy about me too, but I also know that he's not ready to verbally express his feelings. You don't know how shocked everyone is that he's been seeing me for so long at all, so I guess I'm lucky to be as close to him as I am. With me, I like relationships, but he's a Kappa and thinks he has to live up to the whole "playboy" image, so.... I think he's content with us just dating because he's not ready for a relationship. That would be okay, but only if I wasn't so crazy about him. I could see myself marrying him like you could see yourself marring the guy your dating. I have came to realize that I can't make him love me or want to be with me, and I deserve to be with someone that WANTS to settle down and wouln't run off if they know how I feel. It's okay for me to show him I love him by acting all in love when I'm with him, but I know that if I say the words things will change. I know now that's not right, and I need to move on. I'm never going to stop seeing him, I just need to stop trying to make something happen between us. When he's ready, he'll come around. Wouldn't you rather have him tell you how he feels because he means it, not because he thinks it sounds good? Good luck sweetie, hopefully everything works out for the best for you
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