Actually . . . and this has no reference to AlphaSigLana specifically cause I don't know her deal . . .
They say that not liking the thought of oral sex is usually more a female thing and has to do with a certain degree of either uncomfyness with her body or sexuality. Some people are also uncomfy with the idea of how body odor can be perceived.
I actually have issues with dating girls . . . that have issues over sex. That can cause way too many future problems. I have friends that have told me that 10 years down the line, that certain amusing uptightness a girl had over sexual expression, or weight phobias or whatever, became serious, serioius, stumbling blocks later in life. Sometimes leading to unhappiness, sometimes to divorce, and many times too a diminished sex life. This especially happens after that first flush of infatuation, marriage flush, or just that total desire to please fades because of long term familiarity.
So again this doesn't apply to AlphaSigLana (thank you sweetie for brining up a reference point for discussion), I would never recomend a friend marry or commit to a women that has unresolved issues that affect her ability to enjoy sexual relations, its symptomatic of too many problems.
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Originally posted by justamom
Freud said, "A woman is like a violin, it takes a great musician to play her well."
AlphaSigLana, I too feel that the act is far more intimate than merely inserting one body part into another. For many women, it takes a certain degree of trust and love that isn't found in the early stages of dating. There also is a difference between a man doing it TO you as compared to a man doing it FOR you. Don't give it a second thought. When you have complete trust in your partner you may see it in a different light. If you don't, no biggie. If there is love, he will understand you and help you face your inhibitions with tenderness. There are many roads that arrive at the same destination. The key is to explore the scenery and enjoy the journey.
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