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Originally posted by 33girl
And you know, I just want to cap off this whole thread by saying that if you're on a relatively small campus and everyone knows what sorority or fraternity you are in, IT DOESN'T MATTER A DAMN BIT WHEN YOU SMOKE/DRINK/TOKE/SWEAT/CUSS/ACT BITCHY IF YOU ARE IN LETTERS OR NOT. BECAUSE EVERYONE KNOWS WHAT GROUP YOU ARE IN ANYWAY. If people DON'T know you're an XYZ - why don't they?
And even if you're at a big school - it's just hypocrisy to me (I know I've said this a million times on this subject but I really don't care). If you think people are so obtuse as to only be able to identify you when you have letters on, and you can act like a dolt the rest of the time and get away with it, that's a real disconnect of thought patterns there.
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I still disagree with this.
I see no issue with wanting to put your best foot forward. I put on makeup for dates. I wear heels to interviews. I don't drink in letters.
I agree on her point that if you think you're fooling other folks on campus, you've got another think coming. Everybody knows you drink/smoke/whatever, and everyone knows you're a (insert group name here). So, be aware of that, and act accordingly.
But I see NO problem with not drinking when you're wearing letters, not swearing in front of your mom, and keeping your elbows off the table at grandma's. Some things are just respectful.
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