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			It is not something that you do on a snap decision.  I have done this. 
 
1.  I had nothing holding me in the DC area 
2.  He had a kid and I thought it was important for a young kid at the time to be near both parents (the kid was 8 at the time) 
 
He came and visited me first in 11/97...I think he woulda moved there if he could have gotten a job 
 
Then I flew out for almost 2 weeks to see him in 3/98 
 
I made the decision to move about a month after that 
 
Then he came to see me in 7/98 and met my family and helped me move. 
 
It worked out...3.5 years after I moved out there for him, I married him
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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