Ok, my story is a bit scandelous, but oh well...
I met KA guy the summer before I came to college. Actually,we "met" online. He was a student at the school, so we were talking about what it's like, blah blah blah.... We had really great conversations, and he really made me laugh.
At the beginning of the year, I went to KA to party and meet him. He was kind of shy at first, but warmed up to me.
Well, I ended up not hanging out with him as much because I started dating a really possessive guy in another fraternity. He started dating a good friend of mine. All in all, we lost touch on campus, but would still talk online over breaks.
Fast forward to my junior year. I got engaged over the summer. I wasn't sure if it was the right decision, so I needed some good guy advice. I called KA guy and had a long chat with him. He was excited for me and very helpful and supportive.
That year, Christmas break was hard for me. The guy I was engaged to was in the military, so we never got to talk. Most of my time was spent online, so KA guy and I were bonding like crazy.
After Christmas, I was a mess! My fiance was able to call, but didn't. He was able to email, but didn't...(You get the picture). KA guy took me to my formal, date parties, and stuff so I didn't have to go alone. He was my best friend through and through, even though the chemistry was missing.
Finally, at the end of the school year, I broke off my engagement. My life was a complete mess! I cried every day for 3 weeks. KA guy called me up and wanted to hang out...He confessed his crush on me. How could I resist? This guy was great! Not only was he my best friend, but there was starting to be a major attraction.
So, to end this really really long post.....KA guy and I are together now and plan to be for a looonnngg time. I'm not quick to get engaged again, but we're having fun and just enjoying each other. Friendship and "no chemistry" can definitely change after time! Don't give up! Your perfect guy may be right under your nose!
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