When Shouldn't You 'Re-Rush'?

[Alpha Sig Scott]

Originally posted by daisy625
Why are you being so harsh to innocent girls on an internet forum? I'm not a fake person. Sometimes new people don't know the in & outs or the right buttons to push on a massive website like this. I hope you have the heart to realize that I just suffered a tremendous loss & was hoping for positive encouragement & advice from LADIES who are members of social organizations whose main focus is usually charitable.

I read the article for new members. I looked at the title of the posts on the first page. I am not Re-Rushing. I am completely new to the game as an upperclassman. At the time there were no visible posts that corresponded with my confusion. Many people do not know that you can rush as an upperclassman, especially when all that they are exposed to are huge state schools that take a loss when they choose a sophomore over a freshman.

If I offended you, caused you any personal harm, stress, or inconvenience then from the bottom of my heart I am truly sorry.

I hope you someday learn the value of treating others the way you wish to be treated.

Your comments were hurtful. I do not expect an apology. I do not expect you to understand, and that's fine. I can only hope that you will agree to disagree with me and stop referring to me/insulting me/degrading potential new members who are a little lost and confused. Being rude and being honest are worlds apart; Guidance and Judgment are worlds apart as well.

If you are the member of an organization, I hope you learn to be a rolemodel to potential new members instead of judging them from the start. Putting out negative energy & hostility will never win you anyone's respect.

Truthfully, and with the best intentions,
HEJ

Well said.