it's never bothered me. the only clubs i've been to were women strippers, never been to see the men, yet.
All times I was with a bf - heck once was even my bday and he bought me a tittie-shot - that was fun! Another time was with all his fraternity bros and travelling consultant
I've known both women strippers and men who bartend/dj at the rippers - none of the ppl i knew were exploited or exploited others....however one friend did quit because of a rough time with her boss (a cheat), and mostl had stories of women who were being used/abused. Esp immigrants, we've all heard stories like that..women brought over and don't know their rights.
So on the one hand i'm totally open to that sexually but on the other there is the fear that not all women are truly willing participants (and does this affect the way men view women in general? - most women would say yes, but in my experience, I don't see that, yet).