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Originally posted by AGDee
I didn't have any proper dates during the 7 years that I was married. That would definitely be the longest.
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Oh!!! Don't say that!!! What do we "newlyweds" have to hope for???
Seriously, a proper date is what? Guy asks you out to the dinner and movie... Picks you up at a specific time and takes you home at a specific time and does not ask you to get down on it...
When I was dateless in SoCal, aside from the fact I was in grad school hayle, I found that sometimes, I had to "arrange" the date and make the fella thought it was all his idea...
So, if I have never met the guy, I'd meet him at a public location--like a restaurant with a happening bar. Then if I thought he was cool, I'd have dinner with him, maybe. Then I would call it the night.
As far as gettin' busy, those are not dates, those are physical activities that don't count as dates in my books...
Now being married, one has to make up a date time. No kids, no work, no worries. Just you and your loved one spending quality time together. And if gettin' your groove on is cool, then do it after the "date" if you aren't too tired from the "date". Otherwise, make the groove thang the date...
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