Life-changing decision...ladies, what would you do?

[lil_sunshine]

Personally, I've never been pregnant, had a miscarriage or an abortion, and I'd never know what that could possibly be like. My 2 younger sisters have had three abortions total between them and now the 21 year old has a 2 month old son and the 20 year old is pregnant now and is due January 8th. The youngest one is Muslim and unmarried, so technically, she's committed a major sin. The father of her baby is her high school sweetheart and he lives in London, England. Why so far away, you ask? He lived here in the States and committed a felony. Since his family's from Jamaica, he was deported there after he had done his time in jail. Since he was unhappy with his life there, he decided to go and stay with his uncle in London, where he is now. I'm not sure of his financial situation, but I know he can't come into the States for 5 YEARS!!! I'm not sure what she's going to do, but she better get a clue quick because January 8th is going to be here sooner than she thinks. I'm 24 years old and I think she's old enough to make her own decisions, so I'm not going to intrude on her personal life.

I think you should have an abortion because you're not mentally or financially ready to have a baby. If you do decide to have the baby, remember that BABIES ARE EXPENSIVE AND THEY NEED A LOT OF YOUR TIME AND LOVE TO FLOURISH AND GROW. The mistakes you make while you raise your child are YOUR OWN, so don't ever place blame on him/her for what YOU did. Also remember this, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR WHO HE/SHE BECOMES IN THE FUTURE, SO WHATEVER MISTAKES YOU MAKE ARE YOUR OWN. NEVER PLACE ANY BLAME ON YOUR CHILD THAT HE/SHE DOESN'T DESERVE.