Dating dilemma

[jeannine]

Men are such a pain!
Just when you think that things are going great, they do a 360!
As for John dump him, after spending all summer with him, I can't believe that he is now "unsure" about his feelings. If he is now acting that way (depressed or not) he does not deserve you!

It is understandable to Todd feels that way, just continue to contact him and be friendly, eventually he will come around and "settle" for your friendship.

I think that I would have to agree with the other ladies, either Ernie or look elsewhere.

There is some reason why you have not ended up with one of the four, whether it was not the right time, or that you both were not feeling the same way at the exact time.

I say keep looking, at some point, you will find the one for you and both of you will know it at the same time.

P.S. Nothing wrong with dating others as long as the others that you date don't have a problem with it. But by what you describe they do have a problem and that should be your hint that either you change your dating style or that you chuck them out the door for not accepting you for who you are, a person that does not mind dating people and having friends.

More of my two cents than I meant to write!
JR