Legacy: would you care if...

[sigmaK619]

My sister was the president of her sorority at the time that I went through recruitment (she was on another campus). My campus had her chapter and there was honestly no doubt in my mind that I would go that chapter. I liked other chapters, but I also really like my sisters chapter. After the third round of recruitment, they released me, and as far as I am concerned, for no good reason. When they called my sister to tell her, they gave the excuse of "oh, there were just so many girls going through rush this year." My sister was upset and I was devastated. Needless to say, they didn't even make quota that year, which made the sting even worse, because had I been offered a bid, I would have taken it.

Fast forward 4 years, I love my chapter and thrived in it and wouldn't trade if for the world (i was even Greek Woman of the Year), but still I wish I could have shared that with my sister.