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Originally posted by blueangel
And who did that? I was advising someone who wanted to get married, but has been in a relationship with a man who is shuffling his feet about marriage for three years. The logical thing to do with a man who does not want to commit-- when you're looking for marriage is to cut him loose.
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Here is what's so dangerous about what you're saying -- you post the rule about having a ring on your finger after two years of dating in response to the original poster. Did you read any of what she's posted about him? He doesn't want to help out with her BC pills and she mentioned that the issues go deeper than just that. He pretty much had her stalked while she was out one evening. And you're saying that if he put a ring on her finger she should marry him -- since it's been over two years?
It sounds like you're saying that if you've been dating for two years, it's time to get engaged, whether the person you are with would be a suitable spouse or not, and that is ridiculous. I don't know why she'd want to waste her time dating this fool, but she would be a fool to get engaged to or marry him now.
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