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Originally posted by Eclipse
In any event, if you decide to talk to the bride about it PLEASE PLEASE do it after the wedding, not before. She has a month before her wedding and she does not need the extra stress.
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If anything, Sandy talking to Aleathia before her wedding could actually alleviate some of the stress.
Think about it, you've been carrying around the knowlege (and guilt?) of not asking your supposed BFF to be a bridesmaid, are worried about how she'll react and who just found out about it via a reply on an internet site. If it were me, talking and getting it off my chest would make me feel loads better before my wedding.
If you're talking about adding more stress becuase it's uncertain of where the friendship is going, well, that was her decision. Sh*t happens. No wedding, nor the planning leading up to it, is ever perfect.
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