How do I support my man when he pledges?

[Crimson Diva]

I understand that you knew nothing of the greek life process. Now you know that discretion is of the upmost importance. The best thing you can do is be patient and understanding. Realize that for a while your man may not have much time for you and that the time he has may be devoted to studying and any sleep he can manage to get, but it won't last forever. This is no reflection of his love for you.