:shaking head:
This is another one of those subjects I am afraid to tell you, but you probably will not get much feedback.
However, I am going to take a stab at your situation in the most generic way possible (I hate to see fellow sisters struggling through relationship issues)
I hope you are good friends with your boyfriend. Just remember this one is NOT about you. So if you have high maintenance tendencies, well...now would be a good time to work on really building your self esteem.
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Originally posted by ILoveMyMan:
I love my man with all my heart and feel that he is my soulmate. He is pledging Alpha Phi Alpha and is about to go online. I am not Greek and need to know what to expect this process to be like for us and our relationship. Already I am having a hard time with it (its hard not to get upset when we're cuddling together about to go to bed and he gets a call and has to leave), but i try to understand. However I need help in knowing what to do and how to feel when this happens, since from what I hear, it's about to get a lot worse. I love my man and will be there for him through this, but I also need him to be there for me through this. He said himself that he doesn't have any idea of what this is like for me, so he doesn't know how to help me. Any advice for both of us??
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Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated...Every Finer Woman's Dream!
[This message has been edited by Finer Woman10-A-91 (edited February 27, 2001).]
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