What type of replications is expected for changing your mind sororities within HBLO.

[neosoulbaby]

I have a friend of mine whom was attending a college on the east coast decided to join a HBGO sorority.She put in her application,went through the interview process and was voted in. After she put in her paperwork and so forth, she then decided that she was no longer intrested and decided not to continue with that particular organization.She now attends a college in the south and was spoken to me several times about joining a different HBLO sorority.I am concerned because I have heard of the term "black balled"which is a possibility in her situation due to the circumstances.My concern is is this acceptable?Will she get black balled? Should she let the members of the sorority members that she currently is showing intrest the truth about what happened at her previous school? What advice would you suggest?