It's a damn shame....

[darling1]

what the heck.


B, im sorry for your hurt. i cant imagine what you are going through. MAN UP THOUGH! you had to know you would encounter negative energy when you chose to join a BGLO. you might have wished it not to happened. its wonderful to think so ideally, but there are people who wont like for your hair, what you say and who you bed. from what i know of you and SEEN through your chapter website, you work hard for your organization. let that be your focus. you joined alpha for a reason. seek comfort in the joy you felt getting your invite letter, when you finished your process, your awards, accolades etc. you let others steal your joy when you allow their hateful comments to consume you and question your decisions.

in 10 or 20 years these same folks will still be commenting on the same thing, BUT it will truly be useless commentary because they wont be able to take away the strides you have made for your chapter AND organization.

keep counsel with those like mamabuddha who are walking similar paths.

remember dont let anyone steal your joy. the creator in his infinite wisdom decides what is right or wrong.