So how pissed would you be?

[aephi alum]

Hope you're feeling better.

Did you say up front that you wanted no almonds because you're allergic to nuts? If not, I'd say it was an honest mistake. Even so, it does not excuse the server's or the manager's responses. Apparently they do not understand that if you're allergic to something, even a teeny little bit of the allergen can cause a reaction. If I were you, I'd be pissed simply because of their callous responses.