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Now ladies, do men really fret about getting married as much as us women do? I don't think so...
Hopefully I am going to be at the point in my life that I want to be at if I ever meet the right guy. I want to know that I enjoyed my life being single, I did want I wanted to do, accomplished my goals, and have the world dangling at my finger tips.
If I ever meet the right guy for me, I think i will be a better and more well rounded individual for taking care of myself during my "finding out who I really am" stage.
One of my really good friends from hs has been married for almost 3 years. He is 9 years older than her. She has put all her dreams and goals on hold for him, for him to accomplish his goals and such. She dropped out of college, stopped being involved in what she liked, and she got really depressed. I AM NOT SAYING THAT ALL YOUNG MARRAGES TURN OUT LIKE THIS.
I guess the best advice is that is YOUR life. When you look back at your life, don't be like "I wish I would have done this, or I wish I would have done that". Life is so precious.
And having a man or someone to share your life with doesn't make you anymore or any less of a person. Be yourself and don't lessen what you want.
(steppin' off the soap box)
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