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Realistically, I believe these are your options:
1. Stay where you are and deactivate from your sorority.
2. Stay where you are and try to make the best of being a part of the sorority you initiated into. Even if you still decide your chapter is not a good fit for you, keep in mind that college is only 4 years out of the rest of your life. I've been an involved DZ for 19 years, and the vast majority of those have been spent as an alumna.
3. Transfer to a school that does not have a chapter of your sorority and take alumna status (most sororities will, I believe, let you do this if your new school doesn't have a chapter).
4. Transfer to a school that does not have a chapter of your sorority, deactivate and just put the whole NPC thing behind you.
5. Transfer to a school that has a chapter of your sorority and affiliate there. Depending, of course, on what your sorority's policy on transferring is.
This may not be a popular opinion but, if you are *extremely* set on being in an NPC sorority (I don't know how badly you want to be in one) and you don't want to stay at your current school, your best bet is #5.
Whatever you decide, good luck!
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