Crisis...Need Advice!!!
I have been stressed out for days over this guy and I need some opinions. I can't ask my friends for advice because they are kind of involved in the situation. Anyway, here it goes...I have reflected on my guy choices from this past year and I realized that most of the guys I have gone out with were complete jerks. Why I chose to date them is beyond me, but you girls know what I am talking about (it is so easy to fall into the trap of picking the wrong guys). Well I was thinking about how I need to find a nice guy...and I thought about the qualities that I wanted this guy to have. And I know a guy that fits ALL of the qualities I am looking for in a boyfriend...he has been one of my good friends for 2 years now. He has always been there to listen, talk, and laugh with. I didn't realize I had feelings for him until recently. The only problem is that I have kind of hooked him and my best friend up. He was telling me that he needs to find a nice girl, and I told him that I was going to introduce him to Becky (my best friend). Well, I introduced them the other day and Becky said she is really looking forward to going out with him (he called her twice), and that he seems so sweet and stuff like that. I think that Ron (my friend who I have feelings for) may want to go out with Becky and see what happens. I don't know what to do. I want to tell my best friend how I feel about him, but I want her to be happy and she deserves a nice guy. Plus, I don't want this to ruin our friendship...she seems to care about him a lot. And I feel bad about changing my mind all of a sudden and telling her that I don't want to set them up anymore, and that I want to go out with him instead...I don't want to be selfish and I don't want to lose one of my closest friends over a guy. What should I do????
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