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Originally posted by 33girl
Lavaliering and pinning are a predecessor to engagement. Period. If you're not ready to spend EVERY SINGLE DAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE with this man, you shouldn't accept the pin or lavalier.
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In theory--yeah, that's what it should be. But, we all know that's not how it always is. Do you think these girls are really thinking like that? I know they aren't.
When I asked the question about being pinned again, it was really in regards to college life--since I only know a handful of people whose fraternity boyfriends gave them lavaliers after graduation. Two "predecessors to engagement" in four years, all under the age of 22 or 23, might be a little much.
Maybe this "pinning" thing is weird to me because I didn't go to a majorly Greek school, and because the Greek exposure I had before was almost entirely NPHC, who just doesn't play that.
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