So I've read the "he's just not that into you" thread, and whatnot. My situation is a little different.
So I start my master's in a brand new place, ready for a great new start at everything. When, lo and behold, one starts itself. It was nice, very casual, nothing too involved or too serious. We have a lot in common, get on really well, and have great chemistry. Then, two weeks later, he stopped by and said that although he really likes me he didn't want a relationship.
Hmm. Frustrating, but ok. So we continue to be friends, chat, go out with mutual friends, for the past month. And last week a good friend said that she flat out asked him what was going on. To which he replied that he STILL really fancied me, but didn't want to hurt me.
My question of the hour is: how can a guy, who's still interested in me, and I'm interested in him, just ignore how he feels? It makes no sense to me. Also, should I bother attempting to seduce him? I've gotten conflicting advice: one says yes, seduce him, the other says no, he's an idiot and should be left to his own devices. Do I leave him to it, when there's a chance that it could be really good?
I don't want to end up like Bridget Jones: found alone in flat three weeks later, half-eaten by wild dogs. haha. Any input appreciated! sorry for the long post.
~ ShyViolet
Men are so confusing
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