"He's Just Not That Into You"...

[AKA_Monet]

I'd read the book... Just to see what it had to say...

The thing is, it is a matter of how you might actually meet someone to either date seriously or not...

If you are just "hanging out" and not really looking for a relationship, then go out with the guy and have drinks or coffee or whatever...

But, if you are trying to meet that special someone, let me tell you, you had better know yourself fully, what your expectations are of yourself and when you meet a "bonifide" man, you need to pick up his characteristics--even his character flaws... And that takes at least 3 months to have a basic idea...

After the 3 month waiting period, and the man has yet to say something about the future, you need to move on...

However this does not work if you are running all over the place dating whoever, whenever, however, whatever...

So my guess is, don't play ball unless you are willing to risk striking out... You just might put it over the fence... And if you do strike out, you will always be on deck again...