hey i have a problem..
i didnt get the girls i was comfortable with for my big, and from the second i got my actual big sis i knew that we wouldnt have that great of a bond because of our different personalities. i feel aweful and very sad because the rest of my class has amazing bonds with there bigs and i dont. and also i was told that everyone always is happy with the turnout and i am not really, i feel bad.
i am thinking about repledging and trying it again because i really am sad that i dont have that bond, i was depressed for a long time and i cant see other people with there bigs without being sad
does this happen from time to time or am i the only one?
does the big play a big role in sorority life?
what should i do?!? any help would be very much appreciated