ETA: I know there are a lot of gray areas and it was definitely a very bad situation that could have been avoided one way or another. But I really feel that both the guy and the girl need to understand what happened really probabaly shouldn't have and why. Especially since you say this guy is now going around bragging about the incident. Maybe your friend doesn't think it is a really big deal, I don't know what her personal feelings are, but we really need to educate people to keep them from having the attitude that cashmoney described because it's really only increasing problems. I know a lot of people do have that attitude, both male and female and since so many people already have the opinion that more rape occurs in Fraternity houses, anything we can do to counteract that opinion is worth it.
edited because I didn't feel comfortable with that much personal information out there.
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It's gonna be a hootenanny.
Or maybe a jamboree.
Or possibly even a shindig or lollapalooza.
Perhaps it'll be a hootshinpaloozaree. I don't know.
Last edited by ISUKappa; 10-25-2004 at 05:31 PM.
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