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Originally posted by JaimeNicole
just to clarify for everyone, i didnt intend to say dont respect your sisters, ... i guess what im trying to say is that if 2 people really want something, and neither want to back down, and there isnt an extenuating circumstance (like stated before) how is it someone else place to make some kind of rule about who is allowed to bid on what and against who?
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In my opinion, it is not any one person's place (or any group's place) to rule on who can win what auctions. We should just encourage sisters to act as sisters, and suggest that they respectfully communicate.
I've had a sister tell me what she bid, saying that unless I wanted to top that, I was just driving up the price. (this is a paraphrase; she was more eloquent, respectful and tactful.) I was glad to get that email, b/c I was not interested in outbidding that price
and was wasting my time on that item. Again, the key here was
communication.
(how did I get on my soapbox again???)
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