I've chosen to practice abstinence for over three years. When a brothah goes to that area of a conversation and learns of this he immediately thinks that something is wrong with me, I must be backed-up (whatever that means), sexually frustrated. Or I get, "Oh, you must not have gotten any good sx."
Where is this coming from? Is not having sex such a bad thing? It irriates me to no-end to hear men react in this manner as if they couldn't go without for a day.
I love music, so I tend to watch a lot of video's (and I think I'm making up for not having cable when I was a child

) and all I see is pssy galore (as The Roots say). It absolutely ridiculous. And it's not only videos, but tv, movies, billboards, etc. And if I hear "it's like that b/c sex sells" one more time, I will scream

.
I truely believe that cd would sell even if there's no women shaken their tale, showin their tig or biddies, or almost but not quite kissin' another female.
Why are people so sex-crazed?