Women who write you rec's

[AOTTAdvisor]

Hello all--
This is just a note to all the PNM's who are getting rec's from family friends, family members, co workers, etc. Ultimately(and please back me up on this, intiated sorority women if you agree), the person who wrote you a rec's common goal is for you to find a home where you feel happy, accepted, and will have the same great greek experience that all of us have had with our groups. If that's their house, that is wonderful but if it ends up not being a fit, PLEASE don't feel we will be mad at you or feel like it was disrespectful of you not to become our sorority. We just want to hear all about how happy you are and how much fun you are having with your new sisters! All sorority women know that chapters can be different at every school and even years can have changes on their very own chapter but trust me--a PNM's happiness, whereever she ends up, is our ultimate goal!
I just had to put that out there. If I am totally off base, feel free to let me know!