Things you wish you'd done...or didn't do.

[damasa]

A few things for all those ppl that were once, or are currently in love with a special someone, and you wish things went differently.
This is a forward I recently got from an ex-girlfriend...I think maybe she is trying to tell me someone..considering I was the only forward address! Well, here it is.

Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them.
When the moment you can't feel them under your fingertips you miss them?
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most:
saying something and wishing you had not, or
saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things today....They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them; words shrink things that seemed timeless when they were in your head....to no more than living size when they are
brought out.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart, but if you don't, you might break theirs.
Have you ever decided not to become a couple
because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?
Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't.
You can't tell your heart what to
do.
It does it on its own when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with
everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?
Too many of us stay closed up because we
are too afraid to care too much....for fear that the other person does not care as much, or at all.
Have you ever loved someone and they had
absolutely no idea whatsoever?
Or fell for your best-friend in the entire
world, and then sat around and watched them fall for someone else?
Have you ever denied your feelings for
someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid....afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.
But everytime we tell a lie....the thing we fear grows stronger.
Life is all about risks and it requires you
to jump.
Don't be a person who has to look back
and wonder what they would have, or could have had.
No one waits forever.
Just a few things to ponder on, trust me i did, then i remembered some things about my past, and almost cried (note, yes i'm male and i cry, it doesn't mean i'm gay, just emotional, so for all you buff unemotional guys that want to bash this, go ahead DAH!

damasa