AXORissa-I agree with you that where I live, being in a sorority called TriKappa would not go over well with my friends or family. However, it is a sorority that is ONLY in Indiana and the poeple of Indiana are very familiar with them and know who they are and that they are NOT associated with the KKK. They do not wear the letters KKK at all. They only say "Tri-Kappa" and they only wear the words"Tri Kappa" spelled out. It's more like the first name of the sorority is Tri and the second is Kappa.
Like I said, I personally couldn't join a group with that name based on where I currently live but maybe if I was living in Indiana and everyone I knew was in it and I saw all the good they did, maybe.....I could get over it.
And I am sure they love their name and their sorority just like you love yours. you wouldn't want people telling you to change your name because it's too close to XO would you? Of course not